Bella Vista Church of Christ
LIFELINES
October 23, 2002 Randall Caselman
When Trouble Comes
In one word, trouble is defined as disorder. Our troubles come in several ways, it could be physical, emotional, financial, spiritual distress and disorder. Trouble can be anything that negatively impacts our life: death, divorce, disease, loss of faith, property, job, peace. If the situation or circumstance calls for us to alter our lifestyle, then it is troubling. Nothing can prepare us for such life crises, but there are some principles and attitudes that will help us cope with trouble when it comes.
KNOW THAT TROUBLE WILL COME.
It is not will trouble come? It is when will it come? Job 5.7 reads, "Man is born to trouble as surely as sparks fly upward." Jesus spent a good portion of His ministry preparing his disciples, and us, for future difficulties. "In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world. I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace". Life's path will not always be smooth. We all know this. We've been to the emergency room and the cemetery too often to ignore it. But it's one thing to know, and another to emotionally accept the idea. Peace is never possible until we acknowledge the fact that trouble will come.
KNOW THAT GOD IS THERE.
The life of David was filled with one disaster after another. In the Psalms we catch a glimpse of how he dealt with his troubles. "The LORD is my shepherd... Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me... God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea, though its waters roar and foam and the mountains quake." The promise of Jesus was, "I will be with you always... Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you.... Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid… I will not leave you, neither will I forsake you." Sometimes there is no help other than that which God can provide. When you cannot see God working in your life, trust Him and His promises… He is there!!
KNOW THAT YOU CAN LEAN ON OTHERS.
God created us for relationships. He has placed us in family units and in churches so that we can draw on strength and comfort from one another. The song out of the sixties said it so well, "People who need people are the luckiest people in the world." James tells us "if any one of you is in trouble, pray... If any sick, pray... If any are caught up in sin, confess your faults and pray. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective." We are commanded to bear one another's burdens. We must learn to lean on one another. I believe the Bible teaches us to make our pain and needs known to those in the spiritual family. When trouble strikes we need two things: the presence of God and the shoulder of a brother.
KNOW THAT THERE MAY NOT BE AN ANSWER TO WHY.
Asking why when there is no answer opens the door for two emotions that should be avoided: self-pity and blaming others, including God. Wondering why is completely natural, but dwelling on the why may lead us to believe God is punishing us. It's true God may use our disaster as a means of loving correction to help us grow in character. However, it may be a wrong conclusion to decide that it is for punishment. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart; and lean not upon your own understanding." When Jesus healed the blind man in John nine, the question was asked, "who sinned, this man or his parents?" Remember Jesus' answer? "This did not happen due to sin, but so that the work of God might be displayed in his life." Avoid dwelling on why in the midst of trouble. We may never know the why. And it certainly serves no useful purpose to pursue such questioning.
KNOW THAT THERE IS ALWAYS HOPE.
In Romans eight, Paul tells us that God has the ability to bring a blessing out of our troubles, "We know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." The voice on the phone said, "I know there are blessings in this, but I am too numb to find them." What peace there is in such a faith in God as our loving father. Indeed it is such faith that overcomes the world. Jesus promises us His help, "Cast your cares on Him for He cares for you... Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light."
God never promised to deliver us from trouble. What He does promise is that He will walk with us. "If anyone loves me, he will obey my teaching. My Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our home with him."
Randall Caselman
